Relationships advice: for married and to be couples

Relationships advice: for married and to be couples 

While you have come to this page it is important that at the end of this information you get to learn some of the powerful tips and guides for married couples in relationship and to be couples.

And the objectives of this post is that readers are taken through on knowing;

• What is marriage?

  

• Who’s a married couple?

• At what age does it require to become married?

• How to build a relationship in marriage that stand test of time?

• Should couples get worried if children aren’t forthcoming?

 

• Other general relationships advice, tips and guides for married couples and to be couples; 

While you will be reading through this information, it will be a long one though, and covers all but you are enjoined to read through to the end, and as I will be taking you through above objectives of the post one after the other.

What is marriage?

Others have made us known that marriage is the union between man and woman becoming one flesh. 

The concept of marriage which involves the idea of God’s plan for man – not to be alone and from the beginning of time by giving him a help meet to complement him. 

Albeit, today, marriage as a union has always engaged the coming together of a couple to be bind by the act "marriage". 

However, when it comes to relationship advice for man and woman who are coming together by the institution of marriage, it is very important not to see the meaning of marriage as what many people have always taken it for or to be…it's more of a commitment and a sincere capital project of the two couples in marriage. 

Before a couple may go into marriage, there are important advice to take note of before you deciding whom to marry, or go into marital relationship at all. I will give out here the few main ones to go looking after and if you feel you just need more to this, there’s a special ebook designated for that @............

Now, for a couple yet to decide who to go into marriage relationship with, needs to consider the following areas as important, as these aspects are what really help couples to have reduced conflict in marriage:

1. - Who are you? 

- What do you enjoy doing? 

- What is your purpose or vision? -What are your strength or/and weaknesses? 

All these questions above are what you should look into properly, analyze them, write them out clearly and this will help you to find or locate that person that can complement you for the rest of your life for good. 

For example, it’s very much advisable to be in a relationship and marriage with the right person that will be willing to fill up your weakness and where your own strength complement or also will willingly fill up the other person’s weaknesses; by this, there will always be the need for both of you to always be together, that which truly proves the genuine significance of a help meet and not just for general assumption by the obligation given on lip service of many but that which comes out of willingness. Couples in this regard would have known and have committed to stand for each other’s support in thick and thin. While on the other side, many marriages are already contracted just because people feel it is the right time to get married or with age advancement, society influence, pressure etc. Although nothing is bad about that but if you are the very sensitive type of person with the issue of marriage or getting married, you might not be stable in your marriage if you eventually succumb to this approach of getting married. More because, maybe you haven’t done your proper assessment with whom you have gotten married to, and you might just need to endure the marriage anyhow it goes. Because it can really become frustrating if you did not willingly get married to the person you love to complement or that person willing also to complement your effort in life. 

2. Likes and dislikes: 

When you are meeting a person to be in relationship with (much probably for the first time); more like interest and specs of (any) intending couples. This is/are a major factor in many relationships, even down to marriage that usually causes a lot of issue, or the perfect coming together of couples (depending). Here at all, isn’t talking about love in particular; as likes/dislikes (depending) is what can lead to love or hate. More like attraction, that may either lead to like or dislikes (depending). One of the best relationships advice for any intending couple who desire to enter marriage is that, there’s no how; there are key things/features that will get you attracted to a person you like based on the factor of what your specifications are and even down to what are those things in that person you like and can never do without. And if you may not get it that person, then there is the high possibility that you will still hunger after that thing(s) even if you got married without the having them. Therefore, it is not really advisable to replace love for attraction and vice versa; a person who desires to enter  marriage must have analyzed what he/she really want and need in such a person before ever thinking of tying the knots.  

3. The consistence provision of each other’s need: 

From the above, many relationships/marriages are inconsistently fed with each other’s desire and needs. When you get married, it’s more similar to getting a car or something like that you really love to cherish a lot and wouldn’t want it to go to death. And this remains like maintenance for the product. If you really love and have married the right person indeed, then what should stop your provision for that person’s growth and development in love if genuinely you have begun right from the start? 

If you are married, please ask your beloved wife or husband – what is it that I haven’t been doing for you? 

Sincerely ask him/her. 

In every marriage there is this crave or missing spaces that are left blank or just unfulfilled by couples for each other, as there is a part from the woman(wife) is looking at to make fulfill by her husband and there is also part of the man(husband) is looking at to make fulfill by her wife. 

This part is one basic thing a person who is really desiring to get married needs to consider critically and be able to meet consistently and that is why before you tie the nut you need to communicate this – of what is it that you need and what are the things that your intended spouse really need in the marriage. 

Both of you need to spell it out, keep reminding each other, and let it be at heart to always get to meet them otherwise one of the couples could be a very sensitive type at some points claiming you just can’t meet up. This needs or desires however, boils down to physical attention, affections, sexual needs, adequate attention, listening, effective communication, and desires varyingly depending on the type of person and such in terms of personality traits that you are getting married to.

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Who’s a married couple? 

A married couple is a couple who are married and who genuinely know the purpose of them getting married, but not on the foundation of them really not knowing the reason or purpose of them getting married. You possibly can’t just have it that you want to get married without you knowing the essence of what it may take to get married - as you first need to be in a reliable relationship that can joyfully get shipping you to a meaningful and successful marriage. 

In today’s world however, not many married couples absolutely are indeed married today just because the relationship they are in now were not clearly defined and that many couples are now growing less expressive to themselves and such in many key things they need from each other. 

                

At what age does it require to become married? 

Constitutionally, 18 and 21 plus in many other regions of the world have been considered to be standard marriageable age. But ideally, there are variations on the intended person who is capable of handling and independently being in marriage. 

However, marriage shouldn’t be best qualified by the age advancement of person; but by enough experience of the person of what marriage implies to him and getting to know who he/she is – in the line of (self-discovery) will get to help him/her locate who can complete him/her. 

When married, you do not really see yourself only as "Mr" or "Mrs" annotations; but you use this platform or step to that higher mission, purpose and vision for your life as this will better become possible if you did your homework well during your relationship – so the support and vision of the person who sees more like you do, really can get you sailing fast to your purpose in life. 

And ideally, when you consider your preparedness for marriage it calls for who you are, and the best match for your purpose that you may consider to get married. And this is one of the best relationship advice that you need to ever get.  

How to build a relationship in marriage that stand test of time?

In a simple way to it, every relationship in marriage will always have its own crisis, but what you should know better is that marriage is the involvement of two different people coming to be together. And if two different people are coming to be one in the name of marriage there is actually a work to come and carried out in the other person’s life and that should be vice versa for both of them to reach a common benefitting goals. Otherwise, there wouldn’t be any need for marriage in the first place - as both couples should see to the constant progress and burden sharing among themselves. So one of the ingredients that resolve into a successful marriage which gets to last - is the moment that you realize this the person you can vouch is your soul mate. No matter what crosses your way you get hurdling them.

Should couples get worried if children aren’t forthcoming yet? 

Children however are the much expected persons in a marriage. To shorten this question in my own perspective, children can come at any moment in a marriage. The reason why married couples who are still expecting children should not really panic once the due diligent work is being done. However too, the reason for your marriage shouldn’t be 100% based because you are looking for children, it's a good thing but it should be a complete product of you and your spouse first and the result of the marriage between you and your spouse are the results which are likely to emanate from your wards. Therefore, never in a way become worried if children are not coming yet in your marriage, they will surely come but don’t try to make it a thing of who is going inherit my properties after I am gone, or who’s going to replace me and those believe systems that many have built over time. 

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